Sometimes Your Heart Is Wrong.

Your heart races every time you think of this person and you’re so attracted to them. For some reason, you can’t seem to connect.

Lately, they’ve been on your mind constantly. Everything would be so right if only you two could be together.

This must be love, right? Wrong!

Sometimes this is nothing more than infatuation and based on nothing more than lust.

The reason we fail to make a love connection is because we aren’t a match.

Maybe you’ve been dating someone and it’s not going the way you hoped it would.

There are things you really like about this person and so you notice yourself constantly giving in to their demands while yours are never met.

The relationship could be fixable if you just forget what you want and do things their way.

Relationships are all about compromise, right?

Nope! Relationships are mutually beneficial. A relationship should add to your happiness and not take away from it.

Following just your heart can cause one to not use their critical thinking ability. Does this mean that one should be overly critical?

Of course not but using your brain will allow you to evaluate more than just your care for them.

Sometimes we tend to accept as a willing participant all of the things that we really don’t want or enjoy. This causes unnecessary suffering.

There should be a mutual enjoyment in a relationship.

If only one person is enjoying the relationship, something is very wrong.

If this is the case for you, express yourself to your mate giving them some insight as to how you feel instead of expecting them to guess.

Good communication is key!

If they truly want a happy and successful relationship they will make necessary adjustments.

A good mate knows that the entire relationship isn’t solely about them.

The same love you give freely to others should be given to yourself as well.

Make choices based on what is best for you and coming from a place of love and not lust or attachment.

Attachment doesn’t equal love.

Focus on yourself and raising your vibrations.

That which isn’t meant for you will fall away out of your life experience while what is meant aligns with you.

Love and light,

Alice Coaxum

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