Something I have learned firsthand and know to be true… You will not attract and keep positive, situations, opportunities, things, experiences and people in your life if you’re predominately negative in mindset and frequently emit low energy into the Universe.

When my attitude was of a negative nature I would feel as if every wrong thing that could occur would and it usually did.

I had no idea that I was attracting negative things into my life because I felt negative on the inside.

With a lower vibrational energy, you might temporarily get a grasp of what you desire but it’s hard to hold on to it.

You may gain the things you desire for the short term but you will not keep hold of them if you are not a match.

There is a reason for this.

Two unlike energies can’t occupy the same space for long. We live in an attraction based Universe. Like energy attracts like.

This is commonly known as the law of attraction.  You receive into your life the situations, opportunities, and people that you match energetically.

Your thoughts and feelings are like a magnet pulling things towards you. You receive into your life the situations, opportunities, and people that you match energetically.

For this reason, we don’t always attract what we want. Sometimes we attract things that we really don’t want in our lives.

Where attention goes, energy will flow out to the Universe.

Negative things happen in life.

Life isn’t always easy. There will be hard times. It’s not always what happens in life but instead how you choose to view what happens and how you decide to handle what happens that truly matters.

I learned to roll with the punches and understand that there will be a mixture of good and bad times in life. I don’t have to let those things define me or my view on life.


Many times we self-sabotage ourselves with things we gain what we don’t feel we deserve or are equipped to handle.

Someone may find themselves in the perfect relationship that they’d been desiring or with a large amount of money only to later sabotage themselves and wind up without it.

Have you ever done this? I know I have.

Nothing is truly out of your grasp.

If you’re not getting what you want out of life it’s time to evaluate how you’re thinking, feeling, and living as well as the things you act on. Your thoughts and emotions greatly influence the energy you send out into the Universe.

The life you want is well within your grasp. You must energetically become the person necessary to gain that kind of life. Make the changes necessary to build the life you want. Don’t focus on what you don’t want.

If you keep building your vibrational energy and follow through with necessary actions you’ll create the life you desire.

Love and light,

Alice Coaxum